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> <channel><title>Comments on: Once I Ask Someone to Accept My LinkedIn Invite How Do I Access Their Direct Contacts?</title> <atom:link href="http://windmillnetworking.com/2009/04/02/once-i-ask-someone-to-accept-my-invite-how-do-i-access-their-direct-contacts/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://windmillnetworking.com/2009/04/02/once-i-ask-someone-to-accept-my-invite-how-do-i-access-their-direct-contacts/</link> <description>Social Media Strategy for Businesses and Professionals</description> <lastBuildDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 12:18:00 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1</generator> <item><title>By: Should a LinkedIn LION Display Their Connections? &#171; LinkedIn Expert Advice &#38; Insight through Your Questions &#8211; A LinkedIn Blog that Goes Beyond the &#34;Official&#34; Explanations</title><link>http://windmillnetworking.com/2009/04/02/once-i-ask-someone-to-accept-my-invite-how-do-i-access-their-direct-contacts/#comment-152</link> <dc:creator>Should a LinkedIn LION Display Their Connections? &#171; LinkedIn Expert Advice &#38; Insight through Your Questions &#8211; A LinkedIn Blog that Goes Beyond the &#34;Official&#34; Explanations</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 18:13:47 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://linkedinquestions.wordpress.com/?p=273#comment-152</guid> <description>[...] in this blog last year.  And I commented on this as well in a more recent blog post concerning how you contact your new connection&#8217;s direct contacts.  I would like to add one more reason to my previous blog posts as to why you may want to hide [...]</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] in this blog last year.  And I commented on this as well in a more recent blog post concerning how you contact your new connection&#8217;s direct contacts.  I would like to add one more reason to my previous blog posts as to why you may want to hide [...]</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Neal Schaffer</title><link>http://windmillnetworking.com/2009/04/02/once-i-ask-someone-to-accept-my-invite-how-do-i-access-their-direct-contacts/#comment-150</link> <dc:creator>Neal Schaffer</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 18:42:31 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://linkedinquestions.wordpress.com/?p=273#comment-150</guid> <description>Hey Chris,
I understand that that is a potential value of not hiding your connections. But what if your friend is in a competitive industry? I guess the question comes down to is LinkedIn demographically different seeing that it is for &quot;professionals&quot; and therefore should this demand different rules for managing &quot;connections&quot; seeing that they are &quot;professional&quot; ones.  Once again there is no one answer for this, but I hope when you see people who do it differently than you do that you do not hold it against them.
Now as for the font size, thanks for the comment.  I will check into how I do this ;-)
Cheers,
Neal</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Chris,</p><p>I understand that that is a potential value of not hiding your connections. But what if your friend is in a competitive industry? I guess the question comes down to is LinkedIn demographically different seeing that it is for &#8220;professionals&#8221; and therefore should this demand different rules for managing &#8220;connections&#8221; seeing that they are &#8220;professional&#8221; ones.  Once again there is no one answer for this, but I hope when you see people who do it differently than you do that you do not hold it against them.</p><p>Now as for the font size, thanks for the comment.  I will check into how I do this <img
src='http://windmillnetworking.wpengine.netdna-cdn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p><p>Cheers,<br
/> Neal</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Neal Schaffer</title><link>http://windmillnetworking.com/2009/04/02/once-i-ask-someone-to-accept-my-invite-how-do-i-access-their-direct-contacts/#comment-4360</link> <dc:creator>Neal Schaffer</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 18:42:00 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://linkedinquestions.wordpress.com/?p=273#comment-4360</guid> <description>Hey Chris,
I understand that that is a potential value of not hiding your connections. But what if your friend is in a competitive industry? I guess the question comes down to is LinkedIn demographically different seeing that it is for &quot;professionals&quot; and therefore should this demand different rules for managing &quot;connections&quot; seeing that they are &quot;professional&quot; ones.  Once again there is no one answer for this, but I hope when you see people who do it differently than you do that you do not hold it against them.
Now as for the font size, thanks for the comment.  I will check into how I do this ;-)
Cheers,
Neal</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Chris,</p><p>I understand that that is a potential value of not hiding your connections. But what if your friend is in a competitive industry? I guess the question comes down to is LinkedIn demographically different seeing that it is for &#8220;professionals&#8221; and therefore should this demand different rules for managing &#8220;connections&#8221; seeing that they are &#8220;professional&#8221; ones.  Once again there is no one answer for this, but I hope when you see people who do it differently than you do that you do not hold it against them.</p><p>Now as for the font size, thanks for the comment.  I will check into how I do this <img
src='http://windmillnetworking.wpengine.netdna-cdn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p><p>Cheers,<br
/> Neal</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Chris</title><link>http://windmillnetworking.com/2009/04/02/once-i-ask-someone-to-accept-my-invite-how-do-i-access-their-direct-contacts/#comment-151</link> <dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 17:18:10 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://linkedinquestions.wordpress.com/?p=273#comment-151</guid> <description>Interesting- I didn&#039;t know this was something we could change, but if I&#039;ve accepted a connection with someone I&#039;m not sure why I would want to hide my other contacts from them. That&#039;s one of the main ways I find contacts- by going through my friend&#039;s contact lists to look for people I know.
BTW, this site would be a lot more readable if you didn&#039;t use such a tiny font- size 2 is much better for body text.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting- I didn&#8217;t know this was something we could change, but if I&#8217;ve accepted a connection with someone I&#8217;m not sure why I would want to hide my other contacts from them. That&#8217;s one of the main ways I find contacts- by going through my friend&#8217;s contact lists to look for people I know.</p><p>BTW, this site would be a lot more readable if you didn&#8217;t use such a tiny font- size 2 is much better for body text.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Chris</title><link>http://windmillnetworking.com/2009/04/02/once-i-ask-someone-to-accept-my-invite-how-do-i-access-their-direct-contacts/#comment-4361</link> <dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 17:18:00 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://linkedinquestions.wordpress.com/?p=273#comment-4361</guid> <description>Interesting- I didn&#039;t know this was something we could change, but if I&#039;ve accepted a connection with someone I&#039;m not sure why I would want to hide my other contacts from them. That&#039;s one of the main ways I find contacts- by going through my friend&#039;s contact lists to look for people I know.
BTW, this site would be a lot more readable if you didn&#039;t use such a tiny font- size 2 is much better for body text.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting- I didn&#8217;t know this was something we could change, but if I&#8217;ve accepted a connection with someone I&#8217;m not sure why I would want to hide my other contacts from them. That&#8217;s one of the main ways I find contacts- by going through my friend&#8217;s contact lists to look for people I know.</p><p>BTW, this site would be a lot more readable if you didn&#8217;t use such a tiny font- size 2 is much better for body text.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Neal Schaffer</title><link>http://windmillnetworking.com/2009/04/02/once-i-ask-someone-to-accept-my-invite-how-do-i-access-their-direct-contacts/#comment-149</link> <dc:creator>Neal Schaffer</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 05:51:44 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://linkedinquestions.wordpress.com/?p=273#comment-149</guid> <description>Hey Louise,
Good to see you here after all of that Tweeting ;-)  Yes, I hear you and know of others that have done what you did, i.e. connected with someone and then looked through their connections to find good people to further connect with.  And I realize that this is an innocent thing with no harm intended.  Like I said, there is no right answer, and I truly respect both sides.  That being said, and to clarify what I always mention to everyone in light of your comment, if you let me know the types of people that you&#039;d like to be introduced to I&#039;d be more than happy to dig through my contacts and give you some ideas ;-)
- Neal</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Louise,<br
/> Good to see you here after all of that Tweeting <img
src='http://windmillnetworking.wpengine.netdna-cdn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> Yes, I hear you and know of others that have done what you did, i.e. connected with someone and then looked through their connections to find good people to further connect with.  And I realize that this is an innocent thing with no harm intended.  Like I said, there is no right answer, and I truly respect both sides.  That being said, and to clarify what I always mention to everyone in light of your comment, if you let me know the types of people that you&#8217;d like to be introduced to I&#8217;d be more than happy to dig through my contacts and give you some ideas <img
src='http://windmillnetworking.wpengine.netdna-cdn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br
/> - Neal</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Neal Schaffer</title><link>http://windmillnetworking.com/2009/04/02/once-i-ask-someone-to-accept-my-invite-how-do-i-access-their-direct-contacts/#comment-4359</link> <dc:creator>Neal Schaffer</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 05:51:00 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://linkedinquestions.wordpress.com/?p=273#comment-4359</guid> <description>Hey Louise,
Good to see you here after all of that Tweeting ;-)  Yes, I hear you and know of others that have done what you did, i.e. connected with someone and then looked through their connections to find good people to further connect with.  And I realize that this is an innocent thing with no harm intended.  Like I said, there is no right answer, and I truly respect both sides.  That being said, and to clarify what I always mention to everyone in light of your comment, if you let me know the types of people that you&#039;d like to be introduced to I&#039;d be more than happy to dig through my contacts and give you some ideas ;-)
- Neal</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Louise,<br
/> Good to see you here after all of that Tweeting <img
src='http://windmillnetworking.wpengine.netdna-cdn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> Yes, I hear you and know of others that have done what you did, i.e. connected with someone and then looked through their connections to find good people to further connect with.  And I realize that this is an innocent thing with no harm intended.  Like I said, there is no right answer, and I truly respect both sides.  That being said, and to clarify what I always mention to everyone in light of your comment, if you let me know the types of people that you&#8217;d like to be introduced to I&#8217;d be more than happy to dig through my contacts and give you some ideas <img
src='http://windmillnetworking.wpengine.netdna-cdn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br
/> - Neal</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Louise</title><link>http://windmillnetworking.com/2009/04/02/once-i-ask-someone-to-accept-my-invite-how-do-i-access-their-direct-contacts/#comment-148</link> <dc:creator>Louise</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 05:44:53 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://linkedinquestions.wordpress.com/?p=273#comment-148</guid> <description>Hey Neal, Interesting post. I&#039;ll admit to being a bit miffed when I find a new connection is not sharing their contacts, but I understand that there are reasons for it. Particularly in your case and others where you have so many, or are in a sales-type job where you don&#039;t want people poaching, I can see some logic in it. However, your point that it isn&#039;t necessary doesn&#039;t completely hold water, because I&#039;ve gotten some good connections simply by scanning a new contact&#039;s connections, seeing someone who looked like I had something in common with and then asking for an introduction. Sometimes you don&#039;t know what you are looking for until you find it :-)</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Neal, Interesting post. I&#8217;ll admit to being a bit miffed when I find a new connection is not sharing their contacts, but I understand that there are reasons for it. Particularly in your case and others where you have so many, or are in a sales-type job where you don&#8217;t want people poaching, I can see some logic in it. However, your point that it isn&#8217;t necessary doesn&#8217;t completely hold water, because I&#8217;ve gotten some good connections simply by scanning a new contact&#8217;s connections, seeing someone who looked like I had something in common with and then asking for an introduction. Sometimes you don&#8217;t know what you are looking for until you find it <img
src='http://windmillnetworking.wpengine.netdna-cdn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Louise</title><link>http://windmillnetworking.com/2009/04/02/once-i-ask-someone-to-accept-my-invite-how-do-i-access-their-direct-contacts/#comment-4358</link> <dc:creator>Louise</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 05:44:00 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://linkedinquestions.wordpress.com/?p=273#comment-4358</guid> <description>Hey Neal, Interesting post. I&#039;ll admit to being a bit miffed when I find a new connection is not sharing their contacts, but I understand that there are reasons for it. Particularly in your case and others where you have so many, or are in a sales-type job where you don&#039;t want people poaching, I can see some logic in it. However, your point that it isn&#039;t necessary doesn&#039;t completely hold water, because I&#039;ve gotten some good connections simply by scanning a new contact&#039;s connections, seeing someone who looked like I had something in common with and then asking for an introduction. Sometimes you don&#039;t know what you are looking for until you find it :-)</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Neal, Interesting post. I&#8217;ll admit to being a bit miffed when I find a new connection is not sharing their contacts, but I understand that there are reasons for it. Particularly in your case and others where you have so many, or are in a sales-type job where you don&#8217;t want people poaching, I can see some logic in it. However, your point that it isn&#8217;t necessary doesn&#8217;t completely hold water, because I&#8217;ve gotten some good connections simply by scanning a new contact&#8217;s connections, seeing someone who looked like I had something in common with and then asking for an introduction. Sometimes you don&#8217;t know what you are looking for until you find it <img
src='http://windmillnetworking.wpengine.netdna-cdn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
